You may also have occasionally noticed how I mentioned the 5 year old mini Kim Jong-Un and the 10 year old fight like Tom & Jerry,
So I was wondering how this week would go. Would the 5 year old break down sobbing that she missed her big brother? Or would she run rampant around the house and steal his larger bedroom?
Well it's been a bit of 50/50 to be honest. The first thing she did was claim the big bedroom. She's in a box room and still in a toddler bed (just). So she's practically moved right on in. Her duvet, pillows and moo-moo have all moved in. The doll babies and night time teddies have all been given places. The clothes will no doubt be coming soon! The first two nights she joined me around 4am but last night slept the whole night through. I had the whole bed to myself. Well, I share it with silly dog and for a small dog he takes up loads of room!
If you ask her if she's missing the boys she says she's missing Daddy but not the brother. Today is MIL's birthday so MrM & 10 year old called to wish her happy birthday. 5 year old jumped right on the phone to tell him she was missing him. I've died of shock.
The surprising thing I have noticed is this. She's playing more. Without anyone at home to distract her, and with no TV as I just don't often turn it on when we get home, she's really been using her imagination to play. She's been on a bug hunt in the garden, played Vets with silly dog, Doctors with me and her babies, had the old hot wheels box out and the Lego. These last few days have been lovely watching her imagination at it's best. She's been really happy and totally not deserving of the Dictatorship moniker I bestowed upon her.
It's almost a shame the boys have to come back!
Sounds like she's having a lot of fun at the minute. Hope she's not too upset when her brother returns and reclaims his bedroom!
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Debbie
So important for kids to have space isn't it, whatever their gender. I know when my boys get one on one time, they thrive, often they end up arguing together or steering interests. Thanks for linking up to #brilliantblogposts x
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